November 7th 2011 marked this year's Tabaski, a.k.a. Eid al-Adha, and I'm just now getting around to blogging about it :) This would mark the second Tabaski I've ever celebrated. This year seemed to be much easier for me than last year. For some reason I felt like last year it was important for me to watch the slaughtering of the sheep, like it was some cultural exchange I would be missing out on if I didn't. This year, I told my family I've seen enough sheep throat slitting last year to last me a life time. Instead, I settled for sitting with the women and cutting millions of onions and potatos. I found that much more enjoyable than witnessing two sheep deaths and dismemberments---it's not really my thing.
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Preparing the meat for the meal |
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My sister and Aunt cutting onions and potatos |
My family killed two sheep this year. It was a really special day for them :) I helped with cooking preparations most of the day. For a pre-breakfast we ate mooney, a hearty and delicious millet porridge, which was followed by the Tabaski breakfast of sheep heart, liver, and ribs bbqed and sauteed with a delicious onion/mustard/vinegar/Spice sauce----I lack the words to describe how delicious this sauce is--seriously--it sounds weird but it is delicious! We ate that with our hands and bread. I didn't actually eat any of the meat this year being a vegetarian and all. Last year, I was new and afraid of offending my family, but they seemed to understand this year.
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My brothers preparing the second sheep |
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This is how you cut meat here |
After breakfast, we spent most of the afternoon preparing the lunch. It consisted of green peas (not from a can), sheep meat, boiled potatos, and the same delicious onion sauce. We ate that with our hands and bread as well. Check out the pic:
After lunch, my family and I drank cold and refreshing ginger juice that I purchased for the occaision. Around the evening, my brothers and sisters and I got all dressed up in our nicest clothes (I had some made but don't have a photo to show y'all), and we walked around to our friend's and neighbor's houses to greet them and ask for Salybo (gifts or money). I didn't ask for any gifts, in fact, this year (like last year) I handed out gifts to the kids and my family. I bought a huge container of 100 lollipops and gave them to the children. :) Tabaski is the biggest holiday here (kind of like Christmas in Amerik) so buying a ton of candy for my favorite kids in the neighborhood was the least I could do :) It was actually a really lovely day. I spent all day with my family, I ate delicious food (no sheep meat!), and I was able to let my friends and family here know how important they are to me.
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Drinking refreshments |
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My brother sharing the sheep meat with neighbors |
I even got all dolled up for the greeting portion of the holiday! I had my hair braided like last year, and I had henna tatoos done on my feet. I didn't put any on my hand like I did last year. Henna here take a long time of sitting with the henna on your feet and plastic bags over them, unable to move. I wanted to have my hands free if my feet were to be bound by beauty preparations. Check out my henna:
If you're muslim, I hope your Tabaski was as nice as mine. I'm glad I was able to spend two Tabaski holidays with my family. It was a new experience, and I'm so grateful for the opportunity to learn about it!
Sam, im hoping this reaches you. Ive been trying to contact you for over a year and hope you can email me or call me. My number is 207 615 7297. Hope you get this!!--Lara El-Hoss
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